Membership by Invitation Only
You cannot simply pay and join Executive Dating. Membership is offered only after a personal review of your enquiry and a face-to-face coffee meeting with your advisor. This is what makes it meaningful.
The Path to Membership
Submit a Confidential Enquiry
Use the online form, email, or WhatsApp. Tell us a little about who you are and what you are looking for. No fee. No commitment at this stage.
Your Application Is Reviewed Personally
Your advisor reads every enquiry individually — no algorithms, no automated filtering. If your application looks like a genuine fit, we will be in touch.
Coffee Meeting With Your Advisor
Suitable applicants are invited to meet for coffee — a relaxed, private conversation before any decision is made. This is your opportunity to ask anything you want.
Membership Invitation
If both parties are satisfied, you are formally invited to become a member. It is only at this point that the membership fee is discussed and requested.
Curated Introductions Begin
Your advisor begins the considered process of identifying introductions suited to who you genuinely are — one at a time, with care.
Simple, Transparent Pricing
There is one membership fee. It covers everything. There are no introductory charges, no per-meeting fees, and no hidden costs of any kind.
The fee is only requested after your coffee meeting and formal acceptance. You will never be asked to pay before you have met your advisor and made a considered, informed decision.
- No fee to enquire
- No fee to attend your coffee meeting
- Payment only after acceptance and your decision to proceed
- No automatic renewal
for 12 months
- Personal advisor relationship
- Curated introductions — one at a time
- Consultation before every introduction
- Ongoing advisor support
- Full POPIA-compliant privacy protection
- No automatic renewal
Payment is only required after acceptance. Terms apply.
How Membership Payment Works
After your coffee meeting and formal acceptance, your advisor will issue your invoice and provide the relevant payment details privately.
Private Payment by Invoice
Payment details are provided privately once your membership application has been reviewed and approved.
Once your membership has been accepted, an official invoice will be issued directly to you.
The invoice will include the membership amount, banking details, and payment reference instructions.
This approach protects your privacy and ensures every membership is handled personally and discreetly.
Online Card Payment
Secure online card payment via PayFast. This option will be available soon.
In the meantime, please use invoice payment or contact us via WhatsApp and we will assist you.
Pay via WhatsApp Arrangement
Unsure? Reach out on WhatsApp and your advisor will guide you through payment personally.
Particularly useful if you have questions about the process or prefer a guided payment experience.
Membership Benefits
Personal Advisor Relationship
One trusted advisor who knows you — your circumstances, your values, and what you are genuinely seeking.
Curated, Considered Introductions
Each introduction is individually selected. Quality over volume — always. You are consulted before anything proceeds.
Complete Discretion and Privacy
Your membership, your information, and your search remain entirely confidential at every stage.
Professional Screening
Every member is personally reviewed and accepted. You will only ever be introduced to people who have been through the same process.
Ongoing Advisor Support
Your advisor remains available throughout your membership — for guidance, reflection, and continued refinement of what you are looking for.
No Automatic Renewal
Your membership runs for 12 months. Renewal is always your decision. There are no hidden ongoing commitments.
Common Questions
No. Payment is only requested after you have met your advisor for coffee and been formally invited to become a member. There is no fee to submit an enquiry and no fee to attend the consultation meeting.
Yes — completely. Your personal information is protected under POPIA and handled with the utmost discretion. Your banking details, once payment is made, are not stored by us.
We do not guarantee a specific number of introductions. What we do guarantee is that your advisor will only arrange an introduction when there is genuine reason to believe it could be meaningful. If circumstances mean no suitable match is identified during your membership, we will be honest with you throughout.
Membership fees are generally non-refundable once membership has been accepted and the introduction process has begun. This is discussed openly during your coffee meeting before any commitment is made. Please read our Terms and Conditions for full details.
Please use your full name as the payment reference so we can match your payment to your application.
Still Have Questions?
Reach out directly and your advisor will be happy to help.
💬 WhatsApp Full FAQReady to Begin the Process?
Submit a confidential enquiry — no fee, no commitment. Your application is reviewed personally within 2–3 business days.